Two of my female chatmates.... are currently in love and being played with... by err.. taken men...

And I don't know why this should unduly sadden me so...

And it's not that I cannot get or understand or comprehend or make room for the possibility that these women can love taken men... because that, I get...

What I cannot get is how these women do not or cannot love themselves enough to respect themselves and leave these guys who, for all intents and purposes, are just looking for entertainment, diversion, quick lays, etc (why else would they have remained with the original girlfriend or the wife anyway)